发表:2019年7月31日

现实的行为期望对3岁和4岁的孩子有什么期望

3到4岁的孩子处于他们生命中一个非常独特的成长时期。他们在各个发展领域都在快速成长,每天都在发现新事物,同时也在学习如何应对新的挑战。此外,他们追求自主,这可能会导致行为问题,而成年人在他们的生活中经常会感到沮丧。问题的出现是因为大多数成年人对3、4岁孩子的行为有着不切实际的期望。这主要是基于成年人的假设,即这种快速发展只会朝着积极的行为方向发展。事实是,就像任何增长一样,会出现新的问题,也会出现旧的问题。此外,孩子的行为是不一致或可预测的。为3岁和4岁的孩子获取适合其年龄的行为知识对于帮助他们逐渐养成积极的行为是至关重要的。在这个年龄,因为他们正在学习新的东西,3岁和4岁的孩子可能会变得更加目中无人,因为他们知道自己能把极限推到什么程度。在尝试新事物时,他们也可能会感到沮丧或焦虑,因为他们的运动技能没有那么发达,他们对事物的尝试可能没有按计划进行。这可能会导致行为问题,如发脾气和反抗。To assist them in making better behavior choices, its important that adults are calm, clear, and consistent. In the heat of a tantrum, it is often very difficult to remain calm, but this is vital. It is also important to be clear in the rules that are set and maintain consistency with this daily. Giving choices also helps children become more autonomous which will lead to more confidence. Catch them being good and reward positive behaviors.In the SKILLZ program, our instructors are trained on how to reinforce proper development and behavior with little or no disciplinary action. This positive learning atmosphere makes learning and growing fun. Self-esteem also plays an important role in how well 3- and 4-year old’s learn and grow. Utilizing edutainment and communicating clear rules and directions set the tone for each class. The instructors also connect with each student to make the environment warm and positive.And, as with any well-rounded children’s program, the teaching team of parent and instructor is of the upmost importance. Creating consistency between school and home, makes for an easier transition through this rapid growth period for 3- and 4-year old’s.Remember, growth is exciting, but the progress is often followed by some backtracking…that is just part of growing up. As Ross A. Thompson, Ph.D., a child-development researcher and professor of psychology at the University of California, Davis says, “The part of a child’s brain that controls his impulses and emotions matures very, very slowly. It’s easy to assume that kids are being uncooperative or obstinate when really they’re just acting their age.” Be patient and consistent and the behavioral changes that this age group experiences will go more smoothly.

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发表:2019年7月31日

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